Sometimes survivors of violence feel ashamed. Maybe when they tried to share their story they weren't believed or they were ignored. Maybe someone blamed the survivor for the violent actions of someone else. Maybe they blamed themselves for the violent actions of someone else. Maybe they don't even view themselves as a survivor.
No one experiences interpersonal violence (such as domestic violence or sexual assault) in the same way. Every story is shaped by personal history, culture, identity, relationship to the person who caused harm, and the resources and support (or lack of support) around them. There is no “right” way to react, to cope, or to heal.
We've collected stories from across the web because hearing many different voices can help challenge the idea that there is only one “real” kind of survivor or one “acceptable” way to move forward. These stories can offer comfort, validation, and a sense of connection. Especially for people who may feel isolated, unsure, or alone with their experiences. You might see parts of your own story in someone else’s, or you might simply be reminded that there are countless ways to survive, to resist, and to heal.
A Collection of Collections of Survivor Stories
Stories From Sexual Violence Survivors
Survivor Story Series from the Me Too Movement
Let's Talk About Rape — Empowering survivors, changing the narrative
Stories from 1in5thatsmystory.org
Stories From Domestic Violence Survivors
Survivor Stories - Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence
Domestic Violence and Abuse Victim Stories of Healing
There are lots of stories out there and we will be updating this page with more over time.
If you would like to speak with someone or there are stories and voices we're missing, please contact us.
